Sunday, July 5, 2009

Lesson of the day!

Today’s topic will be on etiquette!!! I just do not understand why it is so hard to practice good etiquettes! Is not hard... It will make life easier and somehow when you need something, the other person will willingly give you a hand and you will not be hurting other people’s feeling... (Awat lah tak guna otak... Mesti dari kecik mak and bapak dah ajar adab!....)

Let me share what is the meaning of etiquette! Below are some I found in the internet...

1. Conventional requirements as to social behavior; proprieties of conduct as established in any class or community or for any occasion.
2. A prescribed or accepted code of usage in matters of ceremony, as at a court or in official
or other formal observances.
3. The code of ethical behavior regarding professional practice or action among the members of a profession in their dealings with each other

Is it hard to practice good etiquette?? I don’t think so... If you don’t want people to ill treat you I think you should not ill treat other human beings too... If you want something from a friend’s friend or family members you should be informing the person you know first then with the the friend's knowledge, then you call the person you need the favor from directly... Not just simply call and just put the other person in a loop hole! There is such thing as “Thank you”, “Please”, “INFORMING” and etc....
(Janganlah kurang ajar sangat.... bukan susah nak inform....!)

If you want to go visiting, inform them respective family or person. That is to acknowledge the respective family or person’s privacy! How close you are to the person, there is still such thing as a phone call.... (Mana bleh main redah jer??? Kita kena ada adab!). If you are a girl... You should be informing the lady of the house... not to the man.... Its plain rude!
(How do you feel if your husband or father receive the call from your friend and they just turn up in front of your house??? Sakit tak hati??)

My advice is that, treat people they want you want to be treated... I believe in “karma”... what goes around comes around... You would just get the same treatment or maybe worst that.... Fikir-fikirkan lah...

-@ pinkbyarcht @-

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